Upcoming Events

Mar
28
Tue
11:00 am Wollongong MU Festival Service @ St Luke's Church
Wollongong MU Festival Service @ St Luke's Church
Mar 28 @ 11:00 am – 12:00 pm
The Wollongong Festival Service 2017 will be held at St Luke’s Church, Prince Edward Drive, Brownsville. Speaker will be Rev Janis Donohoo, Chaplain, MU Sydney “Listen to Jesus” Followed by lunch in the Church Hall[...]
Mar
31
Fri
10:30 am Diocesan Festival Service 2017 @ St Andrew's Cathedral
Diocesan Festival Service 2017 @ St Andrew's Cathedral
Mar 31 @ 10:30 am – 11:45 am
Members and friends are invited to attend this Service. The speaker at the service will be the MU Sydney President, Mrs Wendy Mayer. The service will be followed by lunch and the Diocesan AGM. The[...]
12:30 pm AGM @ Chapter House
AGM @ Chapter House
Mar 31 @ 12:30 pm – 2:00 pm
All Members are encouraged to attend the Annual General Meeting to hear reports of the previous year and participate in plans for the coming year.
May
2
Tue
10:00 am St George/Sutherland Area Day @ Christ Church Mortdale
St George/Sutherland Area Day @ Christ Church Mortdale
May 2 @ 10:00 am
St George/Sutherland Area Day will be hosted by the Peakhurst-Mortdale MU Branch. Topic for the day is “Forgiveness – The Big Issue”
May
10
Wed
10:00 am Southern Highlands Area Day @ St Stephen's Anglican Church
Southern Highlands Area Day @ St Stephen's Anglican Church
May 10 @ 10:00 am – 1:45 pm
More details to come.
May
12
Fri
9:30 am Sewing Day, Hospital Visiting @ St Stephen's Anglican Church
Sewing Day, Hospital Visiting @ St Stephen's Anglican Church
May 12 @ 9:30 am – 3:00 pm
A sewing day has been organised to prepare items for delivery to maternity hospitals. We need as many people to help as possible, please come between 9:30am to 3:00pm as you are available. If you[...]
Jun
2
Fri
7:00 am Market Day Stall @ Town Hall Arcade
Market Day Stall @ Town Hall Arcade
Jun 2 @ 7:00 am – 2:30 pm
MU Sydney will be holding a Market Day Stall on 2nd June 2017 in Town Hall Arcade. Donations of items that can be purchased by our customers as Christmas gifts would be very much appreciated.[...]

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MU Sydney Social Issues Newsletter March 2016

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What should we think about … Oct 2015

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The value of MU Families Equip

Just the other day I was invited to a friend’s home to hear a very experienced mother share her parenting wisdom. There was a group of women with children ranging from toddlers to teenagers all ready to hear any advice on successful parenting.

On many levels it was a great evening and encouraging to be in a room full of women who wanted to parent better. It was clear that they were there to get ideas and to support and encourage one another as parents.

What was said reflected many well established and well researched notions such as the importance of teaching resilience and self control, the place of discipline and family traditions and the importance of communication. The presenter has a lot of parenting experience and as well an educational background that enhanced what she had to say.

It made me reflect on the MU Families Equip course that covers all these aspects over the five sessions.

The difference between the forum I attended and the Families Equip course however, was what struck me the most. The forum was the recount of one woman and her journey with her many children. While she had good things to say it was very much ‘this is what I did’. The women in the room seemingly wanted to copy her every parenting decision, even down to wanting to know the phrases she used with her children. I do not believe the presenter would have wanted each person present to think they needed to copy her every action but this is what seemed to be happening with some of the women there, judging from their reactions and listening to what they were saying.

Families Equip presents the information about, say, resilience and then encourages each family to work this through and apply it to their situation. It works to equip parents with knowledge and the platform to reflect on their own situation and apply that knowledge. It struck me that this results in a liberating approach to parenting where you are empowered to make changes rather than ‘I have to do this this way in order to get the results’.

As God has designed each family to be unique with a plan for each family and indeed each individual in the family, we need to ensure we are not copying one person as the way to do things. We can thank God for the example of others around us and how he has graciously given others to encourage, rebuke and teach us but we should never hold one person or family up as 'this is the way to do things’.

To volunteer … when & where & why

Just recently I have been thinking through what it means to be a volunteer.

In thinking through this topic I found some surprising results and along the way have been encouraged and MU Activitieschallenged. I believe Christians have much to offer in terms of volunteering and MU is a wonderful organisation to volunteer with. Importantly it is an organisation that can easily add depth to church communities.

So to answer my questions I looked up various university studies and results from the Australian Bureau of Statistics. I found that volunteering ranges from informal acts like looking after a family member through to trained positions like surf lifesavers.

Volunteering is incredibly valuable. The University of Adelaide estimated the value of volunteering to be more than $200 billion per year1. Of course, this is just the monetary value. Many MU members can testify to the profound impact serving morning tea at court can have on distressed people.

VolunteeringThe number of volunteers isn't as I imagined declining. It isn't increasing in great numbers but at least it isn't going backwards. Given that a lot of the people who volunteer are employed and middle class2 it made me wonder how volunteering happens. My guess is that it is often situation driven. For example, your son plays soccer so you join the committee.

Perhaps unexpectedly, the act of volunteering brings blessings to the volunteer. God in his kindness has designed us so that when we volunteer the brain registers this in the same way as when we receive rewards or pleasure.

Researchers have shown that volunteering results in increased skills, improved health and fitness, increase in mental alertness and social connections3 Volunteering has also been shown to help develop resilience in children by building social networks.

Why do we as Christians bother? Fundamentally we bother because our time is not our own. Our thoughts, words and deeds belong to the sovereign God who created us, made it possible to be in a right relationship with him and continues to work in us for his good purposes.

So how do we decide if we are to spend some of our pressured day volunteering? How are we to discern which activity or organisation we should volunteer with? There are so many wonderful activities and groups - both Christian and secular.

Ultimately each person needs to determine how he or she will use his or her time each day.

Some factors to consider when determining what you will do with each day are -

  • Humbly come before God - acknowledging what he has done for us and our need to live under his rule and authority.
  • Repent of any thoughts or desires which may be stopping you from carving out time with an activity that may seemingly give no reward.
  • Consider your circumstances, your resources (both you and your skills and what God has blessed you with).
  • Have a look around you - what opportunities are in your church and community?
  • Consider that we need to be active in Christian groups but we also need to be involved in our secular community.

I find MU a great balance - it is a well established, biblically based, prayer supported organisation. It seeks to build up and encourage Christian marriages and families. It is also outward looking as it seeks to support those families under stress. I suspect that all families today could benefit from some TLC and all families need to know that God's plan for marriage and family is the best plan.

I would encourage you individually and collectively to have a constructive look at how we are using the many resources God has blessed us with. Imagine how God could use us if we are willing to spend some time volunteering in what is going on around us.

Compiled by

Ann Cunningham

Social Issues & Action
Coordinator

1. https://www.adelaide.edu.au/news/news55621.html

2. https://www.ourcommunity.com.au/general/general_article.jsp?articleId=4983

3. https://www.adelaide.edu.au/news/news55621.html